Is your dad having difficulty sleeping due to nightmares? Does he seem distracted and uneasy since he retired? Is he taking the death of a friend especially hard and doesn’t seem to be coping with the loss? Is your dad a veteran? Your dad may be experiencing symptoms of PTSD.
Post-traumatic Stress Disorder, or commonly known as PTSD, is something we frequently see covered in the news. Most of the time, the stories are referring to younger vets coming back from war—those who have bravely served more recently in Afghanistan and Iraq. But less frequently discussed is the fact that older veterans can also suffer from PTSD long after they have returned home and years after combat, sometimes even decades later! An entire older generation of veterans from World War II, Korea, and Vietnam are now showing signs of PTSD years after serving.
During midlife, these veterans have held down careers, had families, established homes and friendships in their communities. From all accounts, they seemed to have moved past their dark days in the war and adjusted to life outside of the military. But researchers are finding that the aging process for some can trigger PTSD. Whether it’s retirement, losing a loved one, facing their own mortality, diagnosis of a health issue, dementia, or simply having more free time to think about these memories, these stressors can unleash trauma that they have been fighting all their lives to keep a lid on.
Mental health professionals have now found a common pattern of symptoms among these aged veterans that they have named Late-Onset Stress Symptomatology or LOSS. LOSS is similar to PSTD in that the symptoms are alike—nightmares, flashbacks, painful memories, or panic attacks. But LOSS is different from PTSD because these symptoms are often less severe, directly related to the aging process, and linked to a later in life trigger. But as an older veteran begins to feel the effects of their age, some can’t keep their traumatic memories bottled up anymore.
How to Fight LOSS:
If you think your loved one (no matter their age) is suffering from PTSD, get help. Contact your local VA hospital or physician to discuss his symptoms and possible treatment options. And for more resources, visit the website for the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.
The staff at Aegis Living would like to thank the men and women who serve or have served to protect our country. It is our extreme honor to care for many of these great veterans within our communities. We wish you a happy and safe Fourth of July!
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