Spending more time with family members over the holidays can highlight behaviors you’ve never noticed before. As your parents and loved ones reach a certain age, new habits can be alarming and may leave you wondering if they’re symptoms of cognitive decline.
Someone is diagnosed with dementia every four seconds. If you recognize the signs early enough, you can treat the symptoms and develop new routines that will keep your loved one engaged and help them to maintain a sense of independence.
Here are the top 10 signs to look out for if you suspect someone may be developing dementia:
Senior moments happen, but they don’t necessarily mean a dementia diagnosis. As we age, our brain size and neurotransmitters decrease, making it more difficult to pay attention and process information. However, if you notice repeated difficulty remembering events or information, it may be more than a senior moment.
Has your mom been asking odd questions? Maybe she’s been preparing for an event that doesn’t happen for several months? Mixing up a Wednesday and Thursday are normal and can happen to anyone with a busy schedule. Increased disorientation and confusion about dates, times and places should be monitored.
Did you know that the human attention span has shortened to 8 seconds due to digital technology? Human beings now have a shorter attention spans than goldfish! However, there’s a difference between our fast-paced society’s new attention deficit way of living and reduced concentration due to cognitive decline. It could be as simple as a sound sidetracking your loved one from a household chore or too many options causing frustration.
Is your sweet, quiet aunt suddenly acting like a larger-than-life Broadway performer? Maybe your dad, who would never hurt a fly, is putting up a fight about pretty much everything these days. Major shifts in personality or behavior are common in early dementia as the condition affects judgment.
Another indicator of dementia is a sudden lack of interest or motivation to do things. Apathy is more common among those with dementia than in seniors who don’t have dementia. You may find your loved one no longer seems to care about personal hygiene, or personal interactions. Though apathy sounds like depression, those with depression will also experience feelings of sadness, hopelessness or low self-esteem. If your loved one is already living with depression, the confusion of dementia and having a hard time remembering things could make them more confused or withdrawn.
If your loved one is withdrawing from favorite social activities, it could be a big red flag. They may feel embarrassed about memory lapses or communication problems. Depression from new dementia symptoms can also cause someone to withdraw from favorite pastimes.
Activities of Daily Living (ADLs) are those basic tasks that need to be done regularly to function (bathing, dressing, grooming, eating, etc.) People living with dementia often fall behind in these responsibilities because they have difficulty stringing steps together or forget to do it at all. Someone with dementia may also struggle with judgment, leading them to make harmful decisions, or lose focus on a task entirely.
Everyone forgets a word here and there (the frustrating “it’s right on the tip of my tongue” dilemma) but a person with dementia might not just forget a word but replace it with a completely different one that doesn’t make sense. Not only can someone with dementia become increasingly tongue-tied, but they may have difficulty understanding others.
With confusion being at the top of the symptom list, it’s no wonder that personal finances can become messy for someone living with dementia. You may tend to notice your loved one has bills and notices piled up, random receipts for items that seem out-of-the-ordinary, or recurring charges that don’t make sense. You may want to step in to manage their finances. And make sure they’re on a Do Not Call registry to decrease the number of spammers or scammers who can get to them.
Falls are the leading cause of fatal injury and the most common cause of nonfatal trauma-related hospital admissions among older adults. Impaired judgment, a decline in sensory perception, and an inability to adequately communicate needs can contribute to falls for those who are starting to show signs of dementia.
If you’ve noticed your parent or loved one is showing several of these signs for a prolonged amount of time, it’s best to take them to their doctor for an evaluation. It’s also possible they’re suffering from dehydration, which has very similar symptoms to dementia.
Aegis Living communities offer memory care programs designed specifically for people with memory loss and their unique needs. If you need assistance caring for a loved one with dementia, or have specific questions, contact the community near you.
Respite Stays & Day Stays give family caregivers a real break—hours, days, or a few weeks—while your loved one enjoys a safe, enriching short‑term home at Aegis Living. Guests settle into a beautifully furnished private apartment and have 24/7 care staff and onsite nurses, medication management, and discreet safety technology (motion sensors, medical‑alert pendants, visitor check‑in) for peace of mind. Each day feels purposeful with chef‑prepared, all‑day dining and 200+ monthly activities—from book clubs and fitness classes to movie nights—plus full use of the community. We coordinate with your loved one’s physicians to mirror their routines and care, so the stay feels familiar. It’s also a smart trial run for senior living: meet neighbors, test services, and see what supported independence looks like—without a long‑term commitment. Choose a Respite Stay when you’re traveling or need time to recharge, when your loved one would benefit from structure, social connection, and great meals, or when you both want peace of mind while keeping options open.
Hospice & End‑of‑Life Care at Aegis Living is comfort‑first support for the final stage of life, delivered in your loved one’s private apartment by our 24/7 care team in coordination with a trusted local hospice provider you choose (or we can recommend). Together, we create a coordinated care plan that manages pain and other symptoms, oversees medications, and provides calm, dignified help with daily needs, while offering compassionate emotional support for both resident and family. Discreet safety measures and a reliable medical‑alert system bring help quickly; chef‑prepared, in‑apartment meals adapt to changing appetites. Families are guided through decisions and moments of closure so they can focus on being present in a peaceful, home‑like setting. If your loved one already lives at Aegis, they can remain in the comfort of their home, avoiding disruptive moves. Choose this level of care when curative treatment is no longer the goal and you want expert symptom control, hands‑on daily support, and a setting that protects dignity and prioritizes comfort, meaning, and time together.
Memory Care is specialized, secure support for people living with Alzheimer’s or other dementias who benefit from a calm, structured environment and round‑the‑clock expertise. At Aegis Living, that care happens in Life’s Neighborhood—an intimate, thoughtfully designed setting where 24/7 dementia‑trained caregivers and a nursing team on site seven days a week deliver personalized help with daily living, medication management, and mobility (including Hoyer lifts and two‑person transfers), while gently redirecting agitation and confusion. Days are purpose‑filled with science‑based cognitive programming, certified music therapy, and social activities; chef‑prepared meals are easy to enjoy and dining spaces and cues are designed for memory support. Discreet safety features like secured entrances, emergency pendants with fall detection, and optional motion sensors, prevent wandering and bring peace of mind, and visiting physicians and wellness professionals reduce trips off‑site. Families receive education and ongoing support. If your loved one is unsafe alone, missing medications, wandering, needs frequent cueing or hands‑on help with bathing or dressing, or thrives with a predictable routine, Memory Care offers the right level of care. For milder needs, our transitional Assisted Living can be a first step; for advancing symptoms, secured Memory Care provides the specialized, heartfelt support to help them feel calm, connected, and at home.